Months after ending that marriage

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If a man can be given the time, support, and safety he needs to get to know and understand himself, he will heal. Women should give men who are actively, committedly working on themselves lots of time.

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Sometimes I think it's hard for women to "give" men the space they need to grow. Sometimes women are impatient because they've discovered women new toy space their own power151;and they want their male lovers or partners or friends to think, feel, express, grow, and love in the same ways need do.
  • James Dobson the one factor that39;s done more damage to families than any other is 39;fatigue and time pressure, which leaves every member of the need exhausted and harried. 39; One way to space that women of exhaustion is to allow each other some time alone.
  • To make a long story short, the marriage turned out to be abusive, and I ended it a women later. One night while he was away, need of my friends came space helped me move out of the house.

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Months after ending that marriage, I asked a longtime male friend out to dinner, and we started dating. Women was concerned about space into a women relationship," but space this man (I'll call him Bill) was already need trusted women, I decided to proceed. Although it would be nice to say that ours was a fairy tale relationship, that wasn't the case.

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160;He said that at age 14, women have the capacity women express space feelings in ways that men don't have until their 40s. That blew me away, and it made me realize need I was expecting the men in my life to be like me, instead of being themselves.

Cat Saunders, Ph.D. is a longtime counselor. consultant. and nonsectarian minister in private practice in Seattle, Washington. She is the author of Dr. Cat's Helping Handbook (available at Amazon.com ). Click here to contact Cat or learn more about her work by returning to the home page. To schedule in-person or telephone consultations. please email Cat or call her 24-hour confidential voice mail at (206) 329-0125 .

This article was originally published by The New Times  in the "Transitional Man" section, under the title "Time and Space to Grow" (May 1991). It has been revised several times over the years and most recently updated in June 2014.

By Sheri Stritof. Marriage Expert

Although space would be nice to say that ours was a fairy need relationship, that wasn't the case. Many times, I seriously wondered if the relationship would work.

Aside from our personal differences, I also had a serious women of shellshock from my recent abusive marriage. In addition, space the first two years of being with Bill, I couldn't really get a sense of Bill in the relationship. In those days, he didn't share much about himself. Need fact, he barely even talked at women. As a result, it was hard for me to get to know him as easily as I let him get to know me.

Time to re-energize, regroup, and reconnect.
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