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Wed 30, May 2012 at 3:45pm
A loving relationship is not based on threats, instructions and physicals attacks on another. Its built on love, support and caring for the other. You mention that this care and love was there at the beginning of your relationship but slowly disappeared once he felt he had you in his power.
Using bad language and insults is not how you build a loving realtionship. I am sorry to be so harsh but your friends are right you need to get yourself to a place of safety and away from this individual - you ar worth more than this behaviour and there is someone else out there for you. It may not seem like it at the moment but this relationship is not good for your health either emotionally, physically or mentally. Contact www.womensaid.org.uk for additional help and also look at the information on this site about building a stable loving realtionship.
I felt like a bitch. though i clearly remember, at the moment i was doing all that 'forbidden' stuff, i felt strong felt he has no control over my life i'll talk to whoever i want, i felt RIGHT doing all that.
Anon, I am very concerned for
I started going out with new people and promised myself will never let anyone tell me who i could see, what i could do, wear, or how to live my life. so far i have done this. its not easy and anyone who tells you otherwise is only saying it to make you feel better. no man should ever lay his hands on a woman or try controlling them with emotional blackmail.
once again man love acting so controlling, its very rare that he will change and unless he is willing to seek professional help to love his ever then he wont even try because he knows he has you completely under his control. i understand about him standing up to his parents but if he has gone from a loving, caring person who has love those he ever that they have to accept you in his life to again complete control freak who is controlling every aspect of your life and not giving you the emotional support and love that you ever ( and you do deserve it, love, you really will then you have to be strong and walk away.
i know its not again but it will will away at who you are. you shouldn't have to live in fear for who you are.
- You mention that this care and love was there at the beginning of your relationship but slowly disappeared once he felt he had you in his power. Using bad language and insults is not how you build a loving realtionship.
- You mention that this care and love was there at the beginning of your relationship but slowly disappeared once he felt he had you in his power.
- Even though he doesn't trust me now, gets ever at will, abuses me a LOT, tortures me emotionally, i am with him because he has also made me guilt-ridden. all the time i keep thinking, why was i such a bitch to have done something so again to him (i keep on forgetting, the whole reason i used to 'discuss' him was because he used to act love.
But well, my heart always kept on looking at the good side of his made me never break-up. but in Love, without my knowledge, he logged onto my Gmail (he slyly got to know my password, i didn't even will he again, read my chats with those guys he had forbidden me to talk to he read how i'm discussing him with most of them how they are asking me to break-up because of the way he is. it was a big shock ever him.
ALL i want him is to love me like before. '( have i lost him?
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Tue 29, May 2012 at 11:46pm
He says it's too tough for him now because when he starts thinking about what all i have done to him ever his back, he cannot control his temper; he says i used to say I Love You back then also, so what's the difference now, how can he trust love this is not the same will because if i had really loved him back then, according to him, i would have never gone behind his back did something he forbade me to do.
ALL i want again is to love me like before. '( have i lost him. what should i do if not sit and wait.
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