Focus on developing relationships with available people. Do yourself a favor and stop mooning over someone it's never going to work out with and start focusing your attentions on someone more available.
Perhaps you've been so busy loving someone from a distance that you haven't noticed your soul mate sitting right under your nose.
Remind yourself that you deserve to love someone who loves you back. Unrequited love is painful and is something that no one deserves to live with forever, especially someone as amazing as you. You deserve to be with someone who adores you, who thinks the sun shines out of you, who wants to spend the rest of their lives with you.
Forget the idiot who doesn't love you back and refuse to settle for anything less than pure, unadulterated adoration.
Try keeping a journal, or write a letter to your ex (never to be sent) to help you process your emotions. Reread your words and try to identify what is really bothering you and what you need from a relationship going forward.
Even ten minutes of meditation a day will help alleviate stress. Here are some tips to help you meditate effectively: Create a calm and peaceful atmosphere. Choose a location where you won't be interrupted. Turn off your phone. Choose music and lighting that you find calming and relaxing.
- Now is the time to reinvent yourself and become the person you've always wanted to be be. Dye your hair red, take a Japanese class, develop a six pack.
- Try using positive affirmations to remind yourself of how awesome you are. Look in the mirror and repeat five times "I am an amazing person who deserves to be loved".
- Go out with your friends, meet new people and flirt shamelessly. Your ex didn't like dancing.
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