Given the kind of commitment-phobe guys out there today, a girl should wait to hear it from his lips first. Even if she’s feeling the feelings, it’s never a good idea to drop the L-bomb first. Those three little words spoken too soon can have a guy running for the border….lol.
My ex fiancé used to tell me he loved me all the time but his actions didn’t line up with his words. So with my current boyfriend I wanted him to show me he loved me.
I had to relocate and he moved a couple of months later to be closer to me. He tells me he cares about me so much but he hasn’t said I Love You yet.
I told him I love him in September after 7 months (3 months dating and 4 months together) and I didn’t expect him to say it back. I was really grateful for him helping me when i was preparing to relocate.
He even drove me 12 hours to North Carolina. He talks about our future and he encourages my goal of finishing my book. He helps me when I need it. I think women should stop looking for the words and pay attention to the actions. They do speak louder than words.
Hi Dani. Yes he said “I love you” a few days before our one year anniversary. He told me that he was glad I wasn’t upset that he didn’t say it right away because he didn’t think it would be genuine, just a reply to make me happy. I’m glad he waited until those feelings developed naturally.
I love him so much, and give myself body, mind, and soul, but he doesn8217;t love me. He has been hurt bad by his first love and I don8217;t know if he8217;ll ever feel that way towards me Move On.
- The hale with you and clicking through 15 pages.
- We slept together after 3 months. A few days later I told him I loved him, to which he replied that he8217;s afraid of getting hurt after his last relationship and that he can see himself loving me one day.
But if either way give him some time you the case is he is just say of getting hurt again. Because when he say8217;s it. It love all be worth it. But not then go, you need a guy who will love you back just as much and not use you doesn sex.
I wish you the best bye. Dont let him play with your heart. Back him that there is no sex unless he is ready to say those three special words. I Love You.
- It also hurts that my first time wasn8217;t really out of love, and that it wasn8217;t as important to him as it was to me. I don8217;t know how to move on, particularly to continue sleeping with him when I know it means more to me.
- Good for you guys.
- I love him so much, and give myself body, mind, and soul, but he doesn8217;t love me. He has been hurt bad by his first love and I don8217;t know if he8217;ll ever feel that way towards me Move On.
I had to relocate and he moved a couple of months later to be closer to me. He tells me he cares about me so much but he hasn8217;t said I Love You yet.
People can be upset and still love someone. How is that even linked? The feelings come from a little ego bruising, which is normal because we are human
Awww how sweet! Good for you guys! <3
We’ve talked about this a bit, but nothing really came of it (obviously, because the only thing that would genuinely make me feel better is to know that he loves me like I love him).
Any advice on how to deal with this situation?
I’m trying to move past this and just enjoy being with him, but it hurts so much to think that I love him and he just likes me. It also hurts that my first time wasn’t really out of love, and that it wasn’t as important to him as it was to me. I don’t know how to move on, particularly to continue sleeping with him when I know it means more to me.
I always wanted to be one of those girls that you really respect and care about, but this kind of makes me feel like I’m just kind of fun to hang out with and sleep with but nothing more.
People can be upset and still love
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