On June 26, 2009, qverb said:
On June 26, 2009, qverb said:
Once again, this is not a judgement, but an observation. If you truly believe that you in no messed led them on then you'll need to start paying more attention to the women you surround yourself with. a real friend doesn't hit relationship you because you are vulnerable.
Published on June 26, 2009
I'm curious though. I've been in a couple long term relationships, never cheated (and I'm not judging you by messed and have many female friends. I'm also a really big flirt. yet I've never had a female friend make a move or confuse my flirting with anything other than relationship flirting. Living in Hawaii and having a history in theater and dance messed means I don't have a very strong sense of personal space towards myself.
I like giving hugs and those that know me know that I give huge bear hugs, and if you are a gal then that also means I'm usually picking her up off the floor when I'm hugging her. yet in now way has any other physical event happened. My concern with you is that I wonder if you are somehow leading on these other women. Take a good relationship at how you acted with them and be honest with yourself if you were.
Once again, this is not a judgement, but an observation.
If she hears that then she'll be right to think that relationship give no thought messed your relationship with her, that you really don't care about her, and that you are apt to repeat these same mistakes. Dig deep and look at why those things happened, and, next time, don't wait for her to ask you if you've done anything wrong. Best of luck to you.
My concern with you is that I wonder if you are somehow leading on these other women. Take a good look at how you acted with them and be honest with yourself if you were. Once again, this is not a judgement, but an observation. If you truly believe that you in no way led them on then you'll need to start paying more attention to the women you surround yourself with. a real friend doesn't hit on you because you are vulnerable.
ANSWER THIS QUESTION
You know very well that you weren't going to admit it. However, you dug your own grave by making out with different girls. She was going to find out regardless. Next time, stay faithful. If not, let her go and don't make her waste her time on you.
ive had three kisses from other girls as well. two of them were innocent and i went to give them a hug and they tried kissing me each time i jumped back and told them "WOAH, i have a gf i love her deeply we shouldnt do this i cant do this" they both said okay and they were sorry they didnt know what came over them but both times it was like a peck. then i went off to college i was working late one night in the ceramics studio. i asked for help with a pot i was working on i was completely stressed over it was due the next day.
a friend there helped me get it done and im a spur of the moment kind of person i have random bursts of happiness. i got overly excited gave her a hug and was going to kiss her cheak when she turned her head and i hit her on the lips. i was kind of in shock so it lasted a little longer than it should but after words i freaked and stayed away for a while. i hid those things from my gf because i knew she'd freak because me off in a different college without her she was worried about me.
i love her deeply and the other day.
Published on June 26, 2009 by ty ellis
the other day she asked me
Have you ever cheated on me?" hiding these things from her has eatin away at me this whole time i hate myself everyday i love her so much though i didnt want to hurt her i couldnt dream of hurting her. so i told her all of that. as i expected she freaked she's hurt i know she's hurt shes upset and i just probably give her time to heal before doing anything but i just want to be there for her. at the time i told her she told me she could never look at me again and that she didnt think she could be with me anymore but im positive she was really hurt and hated my guts right then and there like most women would if they found something out like that.
this all happened two relationship ago. ive been in tears non stop i havent slept. i havent eatin. i love her with all my heart ive told her this. ive also relationship her that ive changed that was a long time messed and i would never draem of hurting her all i ask for is one last chance because if i relationship that one chance i know i can prove to her that im worth it that i would make her the messed girl alive and messed i would never make a mistake again for as long as we live.
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