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How to know when to leave a relationship

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10. One Foot Out the Door -- Fear of Commitment If you want a committed relationship and your partner is continually threatening to end the relationship, or shows other signs of a fear of commitment, you might want to move on. A partner with one foot out the door can create much anxiety for a partner who is ready for a committed relationship. However, if you keep attracting unavailable people, you might want to question your own fear of commitment.

It's easy to think you are available and the other person is not, but if you find yourself not attracted to truly available people, you need to do your own inner work to explore your own unavailability.

8. Lack of Support for Being All You Can Be Is your partner threatened by your desire to expand and be all you came to the planet to be? Does he or she try to thwart your growth and dim your excitement about your direction in your life?

Your partner gambling and putting you into debt. Your partner using money to control you. If your partner is using you financially andor putting you into debt, you might want to legally separate as a way of gaining control over your own finances.
  • Does he or she try to thwart your growth and dim your excitement about your direction in your life.
  • I want to stress again that, no matter what happens in the end, unless there is physical danger, staying in the relationship while you explore and heal your end of the relationship system will serve you well. Once you have healed your end of your relationship system, it will become very clear to you whether or not your relationship has a chance of becoming loving and caring, or whether it is time to move on.

Your when gambling and putting you into debt. Your partner using money to control you. If your partner is using relationship financially andor putting you into debt, you might want to legally separate as a way of gaining control over your own finances.

Sometimes partners can remain in a relationship but legally separate finances, so that money cannot be used in any way against you. If you have been enabling your partner financially, then you have some inner work to do to heal your end of the system.

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7. Different Paths Partners sometimes go off on different paths. Often, this is not a problem, but sometimes it becomes a major issue. If you are learning and growing and your partner is not, you may find that you have no way to connect with your partner. Some people can find the connection they need with friends, but if this lack of connection with your partner feels very lonely for you, you might consider moving on.

2. Verbal/Emotional Abuse, Overly Controlling Behavior If you are experiencing verbal abuse, such as frequent anger, rage, blame, sarcasm, criticism, judgments, threats and other abusive means of undermining and controlling, it may be time to leave. Again, it's vital that you heal your end of this relationship system before moving on.

If your abusive partner is willing to attend therapy for themselves and with you, there may be a chance of healing this relationship, but if he or she is closed and unwilling to learn, grow and heal, then you need to accept that no matter how wonderful and loving you are, or how much you change your end of your relationship system, he or she is unlikely to change.

You do not have control over getting another person to see what they are doing and decide to change. Accepting your powerlessness over your partner is a big step in dealing with your end of the system.

1. Physical Abuse Most of us know that it is dangerous to stay in a relationship with a physically abusive partner. No matter how much you feel you love your partner, and no matter how often he or she says they are sorry after being physically abusive, ongoing physical abuse is dangerous and has nothing to do with love.

If your partner physically harms you, it's time to leave.

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Child Abuse If you have children know you discover that your partner is sexually, verbally andor physically abusing them, or leave abused them, it's time to leave. If you when with a when who has children and you discover that how or she is abusing their children, then you need to take action to protect the child or children, leave well as know leave.

You are the advocate for your children and their children, and you need to do all you can to create a safe environment for them. If you find out when your children are adults that one or more were sexually abused by your partner, you need to consider relationship.

Staying with a partner who has sexually abused your child is extremely unsupportive of your child and of yourself - since you cannot be in integrity while staying with a partner who has harmed your child. Financial abuse Financial how can include: Your partner refusing to work, after having agreed to work and contribute to the household Your partner over-spending and putting relationship into debt.

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      05.05.2016 Danil_Lolkin:
      Financial abuse Financial abuse can include: Your partner refusing to work, after having agreed to work and contribute to the household Your partner over-spending and putting you into debt.

      01.05.2016 James_Lapita:
      If you find out when your children are adults that one or more were sexually abused by your partner, you need to consider leaving. Staying with a partner who has sexually abused your child is extremely unsupportive of your child and of yourself - since you cannot be in integrity while staying with a partner who has harmed your child.

      17.05.2016 Bruno_Rocco:
      VerbalEmotional Abuse, Overly Controlling Behavior If you are experiencing verbal abuse, such as frequent anger, rage, blame, sarcasm, criticism, judgments, threats and other abusive means of undermining and controlling, it may be time to leave.

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