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- But free on track again I thought I would turn to Google and the match advice site to see if there were any useful hints and tips message would help me out. I quickly realised that the dating advice online was the same as singles I for, write an attention-grabbing headline that tells people who you are, make it interesting, and also write a bit about what you are looking for.
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- Meet in a public place.
- Do not go to their home and do not give them your address.
- Check the time of the last trainbustube.
Arrange your own transport. Don't let your date pick you up from your home on your first meeting. Check the time of the last train/bus/tube.
I firstly had a look on some people’s profiles on the dating site to see if that would spark any inspiration. I found that the ones which attracted me most to reading them were not too long, they were funny, and they told me some details about who they were and what qualities they wanted in their date.
So many people had written, ‘I don’t know what to say’ or ‘I’m really new at this’ and it got a bit repetitive going through people’s dating profiles which all had the same summary. I realised that what you need to do when writing your profile is to stand out from the crowd, and so the worst thing you could do is to start your site profile like a hundred other people do!
We came up with the short and sweet -‘Cake baker, risk-taker and fun maker! A good time girl looking to meet a fun and friendly guy.
If you like to dance, drink wine, eat good food, and have adventures, then I'm your girl.’
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