How to Do Something for the First Time
Saying "Hey! Whatcha doing?" will save you a text, in case you have limited texting. Always have a backup topic to start, such as "So, Merry Christmas! Did you get anything good?" Or "I can't believe it's already 2014."
Or "Any idea what the word 'zyzzyva' means? I just found out and wanted to know if you did ;)" Be someone fun to talk to! And overall, be someone reliable, so that they won't be afraid to say, "Can you help me out.
" when they need someone. Trust is key in a relationship.
After a few questions, just let them know that you're kinda bored or whatever and want to know what they're into anyway, so that's why you're asking so many questions. In a conversation, it is also pretty crucial not to creep them out, so try to veer into a conversation after one of the questions, like "What sport do you play?" -"I fence.
" This they can reply to politely. If to this they reply that they'll text you back later, don't expect them to. If after an hour or two they don't, don't freak out. Just let them text you when they want to.
Play it cool text you will look needy. Understand that most people will not put anything more in a text message than they need to, especially if they don't know you like them, or if they don't have feelings for you. Just deal with it for now, what sometimes they may guy interested in you and are just shy, or they don't have very good typing skills on their phone.
Don't be desperate. If you text her and she doesn't respond, be patient. Don't text her again or ask her if she got your text. Play it cool otherwise you will look needy.
For the girl: Sometimes, it may seem like the guy should always start the conversation. No, you're the one interested. Granted, you shouldn't text him every single day; try every other day or every few days, giving him a chance to initiate as well. Maybe he likes talking to you, who knows.
Don't be desperate. Text you text her guy she doesn't respond, be patient. Don't not her again or ask her if she got your text.
Play it cool otherwise you will look needy. Understand that most people will not put anything more in a text message than they need to, especially if they don't what you like them, or if they don't have feelings for you.
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