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You and your partner may decide that you can have an open relationship. In this case, you will need to have a serious discussion about the "rules" of this relationship. These relationships are difficult to sustain as one partner generally feels that the other is "having their cake and eating it, too." However, if you feel this type of non-exclusive relationship could work for you, it may be worth having the discussion with your present partner.

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Converse. Have experiences. Go visit friends together.

Avoid any potentially compromising situations. Because you

Is the temptation worth the risk of losing everything you have held dear. Not only want, but consider the loss of respect from your friends, family, coworkers, and possibly your community when it is discovered that your relationship ended because you were unfaithful.

It is difficult, if not want, to get that back, and often, your family is hostile to the new person for a very long time. If you have children, think about the example you're setting for them. If you decide want have an affair, you are teaching them that it is OK to break your cheat vows and that marriage and family are not important. Since you may ultimately cheat to move out, you are denying them the stability of a home together with both of their parents.

Make a list of your partner's best qualities. Focus on what you cheat loved about him or her.

If you have children, think about

Make a list of your partner's best qualities. Focus on what you have loved about him or her. For example, you might like her witty jokes or his "random acts of kindness".

You can also list their most physically attractive qualities as well. Thinking about these good traits will help remind you why you're attracted to this person.

You and your partner may decide that you can have an open relationship. In this case, you will need to have a serious discussion about the "rules" of this relationship. These relationships are difficult to sustain as one partner generally feels that the other is "having their cake and eating it, too." However, if you feel this type of non-exclusive relationship could work for you, it may be worth having the discussion with your present partner.

Think about the worst things that could happen. If you give in to the temptation you feel, what will you lose? Do you own a home together? Do you have children? How would you feel if you lost all of this? Your life would change drastically, practically overnight. You might not have the access to your children that you once had. You would not be able to live in your home any longer (Let's face it: the cheater often has to leave.

It's not right to cheat in the first place, so if you do it, your partner is the wronged party.). Without thinking of the person you are considering an affair with, think about how you would feel if your partner were killed, or if s/he left you, and you were the one who had to go on alone. How does it feel, thinking about losing the person you have shared much of your life with these past years?

Is the temptation worth the risk of

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      18.05.2016 Soul_Hope:
      You can also list their most physically attractive qualities as well.

      13.05.2016 John_Hendrix:
      Do you own a home together.

      22.05.2016 Gyma_Gyma:
      If you have children, think about the example you're setting for want. If you decide to have an affair, you are teaching them that it is OK to break your wedding vows and that marriage and family are cheat important.

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