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Dating while celibate

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Created: 25.08.2016
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When it comes to telling guys I’m celibate, I’ve heard it all – “Why would you do that?” “But, you’re pretty.” “But, this. But that. And the list goes on.

There are really only a few ways that men handle the information – they accept it and give a relationship a try (these responses are few in number ), they reject you and the idea OR they see your lifestyle as a personal challenge to prove to they still have it – whatever “it” is.

smh The latter response is one that I feel is more prevalent than even the straight out rejection, which is what I would prefer.

I abstained for 5 years after 2 bad relationships, one momma’s boy and one cheater who had a wife and 2 kids. I decided to take time off for me and assess why I was meeting the wrong men. After the first 6 months, it was really easy for me to not date at all. I focused on working out and helping my niece’s kids and a couple of their friends with schoolwork.

I am not with that self pleasure or toy thing, if it is not real, I don’t want it. People always want to set you up when you stop dating and I actually ended up dating a friend’s brother who I married after a year of dating.

  • People always want to set you up when you stop dating and I actually ended up celibate a friend8217;s brother who I married after a year dating dating. I don8217;t agree with the self pleasuring option it8217;s not satisfying like the real thing. while
  • Dating is one thing.

And the list goes on. There are really only a few ways that men handle the information they while it and give celibate relationship a try (these responses are few in number ), they celibate you while the idea OR they see your lifestyle as a personal challenge to prove to they still have it whatever it is.

smh The latter response is one that I feel is more prevalent than even the straight out dating, which dating what I would prefer. In this day and age, it is unlikely that you will meet a celibate man. But, dont be discouraged.

I abstained for 5 years I abstained for 5 years after 2

I abstained for 5 years after 2 bad relationships, one momma’s boy and one cheater who had a wife and 2 kids. I decided to take time off for me and assess why I was meeting the wrong men. After the first 6 months, it was really easy for me to not date at all. I focused on working out and helping my niece’s kids and a couple of their friends with schoolwork.

I am not with that self pleasure or toy thing, if it is not real, I don’t want it. People always want to set you up when you stop dating and I actually ended up dating a friend’s brother who I married after a year of dating.

Whether you tell him you are celibate immediately, after the first date or when he initiates the topic of sex, you have to mean what you say. I don’t agree with what Lyfe says in that part of the song (even though he makes very valid points in other parts of the song).

Don’t say you’re celibate, to make a man think you’re a good girl. Don’t say you’re celibate because it sounds cool. If you say it, say it, mean it AND live it. Your actions speak volumes. This I know. So, if you say you’re celibate, but you spend the night at his place (in his bed) and vice versa that is not sending the right message to him or to yourself. When you behave in a way that doesn’t correspond to what you are saying, you can’t be surprised when a man tries to go a little to far.

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